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Life Lessons for LB {sharing my heart}

I have been keeping a journal (a gift I got from LB's Dad).  It isn't so much of a journal as it is letters to my son.  I catch myself writing ongoing life lessons.  He's only two and a half so he is going to have a lot of reading to do by the time he is eighteen.  I feel like this has been therapeutic.  I have a way of sharing with him the things that he just can't possibly keep stored.  Now, he will have it forever. 

There is a great quote by Elizabeth Stone, ‘Making the decision to have a child is momentous.  It is to decide forever to have your heart go walking around outside of your body.’ This is very true.  You will learn this when you become a parent.  When you cry, my heart cries.  When you get hurt, my heart hurts.  When you smile, laugh, and love – my heart does the same.  A piece of me resides within you.

Oh the places you’ll go – “There will be times in your life when you feel stuck.  It’s up to you to decide where you’ll go.  Keep on trekking.  Go, go, go kid.  You’ll move mountains.”  I have not a doubt in my mind that you will do just this.  Be strong, be kind and there is nothing you can’t do.

Accept others.  Be kind to everyone.  Everyone has their own story, their own challenges and struggles.  Accept them as they are and treat them with respect – they deserve it until they show you that they don’t. 

Being a man. It isn’t defined by the extra curricular activities that you pursue.  Being a man, being you, is defined by your character.  Be emotional, be sincere, be you.  I am always proud of you.

Work with your hands.  Our family comes from hard workers.  They have dirt on their hands, literally.  I want you to know how to change your oil (and your moms) and I want you to help Grandpa in the field.  This will help you to be a well rounded individual. 

Go to College.  This is not an option and absolutely not negotiable.  I will support whatever you want to do with your life but you have to have a degree and the experience that comes with going to collage. 

Find your passion.  Do what you love and you will never work a day in your life.  Do it as your career or on the side as a hobby.  Always know that life is worth living.  It goes too quickly and it is wasted if you don’t enjoy it.  If you live this way, you will inspire others to do the same.

Never stop learning.  If you don’t know the answer to something, ask.  Why and how create stimulation in your brain. That is how you learn.  Figure out the mechanical, chemical, environmental causes for everything.  Take classes for enjoyment ~ Solely for the purpose of learning. 

Respect. Period.  Show it to everyone.  You are no better or worse than anyone else.  Friends, family, loves, strangers, earth – all deserve your respect.  You get what you give.

Put the toilet seat down.  Seriously.  Not only is it polite but it is sanitary to do so.

Dream.  Smile.  Love.

 And last but not least, home is where your heart is.  Go and explore.  Travel and experience life.  Just know that you can always come home.  I will always be there with open arms and with a kiss in the crook of your neck (that’s my favorite place). 

Kisses times 10, LB. Love you! 

 

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The sweetest thing...

It is amazing how a cookie first thing in the morning can start your day off just right.  Now, this isn’t totally as it sounds – however, I am not a stranger to eating cookies and sweats in the morning but this story isn’t about that, well, not entirely.

Yesterday, as I am getting ready to leave for work, LB points to a package of store bought cookies on the counter and he starts to whine.  My first reaction was, ummm, no you can’t have cookies for breakfast.  But, he was insistent on the cookie and the little tike had been sick and feeling miserable for several days now so I figured what could it hurt?

I open the package and hand him the last cookie form the container.  He hands it back to me.  I look confused and I say “Here LB, you can eat it” trying to reassure him that it is ok.  He hands it back and says “Mommy!’  I was taken back…  He was giving me the cookie…  really?!  I of course squealed in delight.  What a sweet gesture from a tired, sick toddler.  Then I thought, “Does this Boy know me or what? Cookies for breakfast? Yes, please!”

(Side Note:  I bought a package of cookies a few days prior and managed to eat an entire dozen almost all on my own in 2 days. I am addicted to sweats.  ADDICTED.  I bought these cookies because they were calling out to me.  Caramel Toffee Macadamia Nut – need I say more).

Here are a few recipes I will have to try:

Toffee Macadamia Nut

Pretzel Butterscotch Chocolate Chip


 

 

 

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What I love about Sundays

I love Sundays...  especially when they are filled with wonderful people and beautiful photos!  I had two photo sessions.  The first one was for an engagement announcement picture and the second was for a baby belly and family!  Below is a sneak peak - I am still doing some editing but I love them too much not to share!

Then, of course time with LB.  Can't beat an all day pjami day!

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How do you eat an elephant?....

So, I LOVE this saying...  You may be wondering, if you haven't heard it before, well then, how DO you eat an elephant?  Well, the answer is: ... one bite at a time.  

Sometimes,...  most of the time, in life I would like to be able to just be where I want to be.  But, as life should have it; it doesn't work this way.  Bite by bite, or step by step you eventually get to where you are supposed to be.  Sometimes you may choke and sometimes you may stumble but with a lesson or two you eventually learn to chew more slowly or exam better the path you are walking.  But, you do in fact  get there... or at least that is what I am told.

I choke / stumble a lot :)  I have learned that about myself.  I learn by doing and sometimes the ‘doing’ that I choose doesn’t always work out the way I thought.  My life isn’t exactly where I had anticipated it to be at the ripe ol’ age of 29…. Actually, it isn’t even close… and that makes me laugh a little because I can’t really imagine it any other way but exactly how it is.  I think back to all of the different path options and the different ways my life could have ended up …  but really, what is the point of doing that.  It’s called hindsight for a reason.  

In my new little venture, I have to continue to remind myself to move slowly and to stay focused.  And in the grander scheme, my life, I need to remind myself of that as well.  I sometime get so caught up in what I want for my life that I skip the necessary steps to really get to where I am going, and with that, a lot of the excitement that comes a long with figuring it out gets lost too.  

I dislike using the word ‘mistakes’…  I prefer to say lessons for progress.  I have had my share of mistakes, er, I mean, lessons (the lemons). I am a work in progress, and for me,  I wouldn't have it any other way - If I stop being 'in-progress' then what do I become??

I heart my lemons.  Without them, I wouldn't be exactly who I am.  

If you ask this guy, who I am isn't too shaby...  

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What My Smiles are made of:

2012 has started off with a new sense of focus and calm.  I took a few days off work to spend time with the big guy LB, it doesn't get better than that! We played with little cousins (we worked on sharing) and ate pizza! Then opened some late Christmas presents and played.  It was totally relaxing and fun not having any where to rush off to.  In honor of one of my resolutions (taking more pictures) here are a few from that day: 

He LOVES sharks, one of his new favorites.  He is becoming very accustom to my pictures - he even says 'cheese'!

Then after work yesterday we went to "Mommy's school" ( I take some night classes) and he LOVES going with me because he is infatuated with dinosaurs.  Classes were out so he was able to roam.  We had so much fun - just chillin, no where to be but in the moment.  Check out his smiles:

...and mine are behind the lens :)

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Late to work {...and so worth it}

LB was up early today, but was not interested in cartoons or breakfast.  All he wanted to do was snuggle... and snuggle... and snuggle...  So, 30 minutes into our snuggle session, I decided that showers were over-rated and work wasn't going anywhere - so we snuggled.  That was of course followed up with an insane amount of running around trying to get out the door, but it was nice while it lasted. :)

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The First Snow!

I live in the midwest, oh the cold! - I have NEVER liked the cold!... well, I assume I did as a kid, but not so much anymore.  I dream of the day when I can hear the crashing of the ocean and feel the heat of the sun, everyday - flip flops will be optional, barefoot is always best!

But for now, this is home, and it isn't so bad.  In past years I have dreaded the coming of winter.  However, this year is different.  I wouldn't go so far to say I am embracing it, but I have an anticipation for it that I haven't felt in a very long time.  Do you want to know what that is? SNOW!  I can't wait for the look in LB's brown, curious eyes when he sees it for the first time.  The expression on his face when he touches the crisp, cold snow.  (To be honest, he did all of that last year, but he didn't get it - actually, he screamed - he hated the entire 5 minutes he spent sitting in last years first snow).  I had high expectations for this year.  And today, I got them! I woke him up with a new excitement today - SNOW!  As he rubbed his tired eyes, I took him to the window, "Look LB! SNOW!" He could see the excitement on my face, and in my voice - and he echoed mine, "SNOW!"  That smile, that sound - priceless.  In those moments I tell myself, don't ever for get this - DON'T EVER FORGET THIS.  We bundled up and went outside.  He was curious, but not too curious to initiate the meeting, the shaking of hands with 'snow'.  So, I made introductions.  I made a snowball and placed it in his hand - quickly he dropped it, but smiled and said, "Snow,... cold!"

It was a perfect start to my day, and I hope to his as well.

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